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Your ND child has strengths and stresses, and they’re struggling.
They’ve been labeled, assessed, and told what’s “wrong” with them. Traditional therapies focus on fixing deficits. Schools don’t understand them. Other kids reject them.
And you? You’re exhausted from fighting systems, managing daily crises, and wondering: Will my child ever have friends? Will they be able to live independently? What does their future look like?
Your child doesn’t need to be “fixed.” They need to know where they are and see a clear path forward.
After 65+ years of combined experience, Drs. Tara Devine and Neal Sarahan discovered something remarkable: when neurologically different individuals can locate themselves on a developmental map and see their strengths, find their way forward, and everything changes.
This book gives you a proven, practical framework that shows:
✓ Where your child is across four key areas: Belonging, Independence, Competence, and Social Purpose
✓ Their unique strengths and how to leverage them for growth
✓ Paths forward for the individual with step-by-step practices you can start today
✓ How to travel with them as a guide, not a fixer
The anxious boy with no friends is now working and living independently
The silent girl with hidden talents is now a published poet and artist
The dysregulated teen in crisis is now a practicing nurse
The teen labelled LD in school is now a master technician in news media
These children weren’t “cured.” They were guided. And their parents learned how.
The 8 Common Characteristics that explain why your child is stuck and how each one is actually a growth opportunity
The Integral Flow Growth Map with its four developmental quadrants and detailed pathways for growth
The Growth Opportunity Wheel for designing daily practices that work
Detailed case studies showing the map in action with real families
How to stop over-functioning and start co-traveling with your child
Assessment tools and templates to create your child’s individualized growth plan
Traditional approaches focus on deficits, use limiting labels, and isolate children for therapy.
The Integral Flow approach starts with strengths, sees problems as opportunities, and practices skills in real relationships.
The result? Children don’t just manage symptoms. They discover purpose, build genuine friendships, and develop real independence.
→ Having real friendships?→ Understanding and managing how their brain works?→ Contributing their unique gifts to the world?→ Living independently at their full capacity?
If you hold even a glimmer of hope, this book is for you.
Tara Devine, PhD and Neal Sarahan, PhD are developmental psychologists with 65+ years of combined experience. They co-created the Integral Flow Growth Map and have helped hundreds of families move from despair to hope, from stuck to thriving.
No Longer Stuck, Frozen or Lost:
A New Way of Being and Growing for the Neurologically Different
The path exists. The light is there. You just need the map to see it.
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